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My husband and I had been discussing having a threesome, which I agreed to on the condition that we would hire an escort to join us so I wouldn’t have to ask someone I know. Now, my question to you is if there’s any way to tell for sure that a sex worker doesn’t have an STD? Thank you.

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Some people love using Rabbit-like toys for masturbation or partner play. Others (even people who otherwise enjoy vaginal stimulation) think they

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Question out of curiosity: I know that female condoms exist and I get how they are supposed to work. But It just seems like a recipe for, well, having a tube of plastic stuffed up inside of you pretty quickly. Am I wrong here? Never used one and just curious.

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Is there any info on which condoms feel the best? I hear good things about Ecstasy condoms, and I’d like to keep some around that feel good so the conversation about using them with new partners is easier.

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I have a male friend who is usually really progressive, feminist, and a genuinely good guy who has never made me feel weird or unsafe around him. Recently, I shared that my female partner (I am also a woman) had never had sex with a man but had always had a lingering curiosity about how diff…

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I want to ask a guy out that used to date a somewhat close friend of mine. I didn’t know her back when they were dating (2+ years ago), and all signs say it wasn’t a devastating breakup at all, but still… Am I doing anything wrong?

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I read that the anus is the most susceptible to STDs, especially HIV. Is that true, and if so, why is that?

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I read in a previous ATSD that you did a study about bacteria counts on sex toys. What about the extremely flexible jelly products, the ones that are extra stretchy/malleable? Are those more likely to hold onto bacteria?

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I talked to my doctor about my waning sex drive, and she told me that it is often like exercise: the less you do it, the less you want to do it. She said sometimes the best cure is just to start putting sex on your calendar and trying to get it on whether or not you want to, and that can sti…

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I read that the anus is the most susceptible to STDs, especially HIV. Is that true, and if so, why is that?

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I read in a previous ATSD that you did a study about bacteria counts on sex toys. What about the extremely flexible jelly products, the ones that are extra stretchy/malleable? Are those more likely to hold onto bacteria?

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I talked to my doctor about my waning sex drive, and she told me that it is often like exercise: the less you do it, the less you want to do it. She said sometimes the best cure is just to start putting sex on your calendar and trying to get it on whether or not you want to, and that can sti…

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My gf won’t watch porn with me, but she will watch movies with explicit sex scenes in them. What the hell?

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What is the best way to make a woman squirt? I have tried to do it in a bunch of different positions with my gf, with my fingers, toys, during sex. Nothing. What am I doing wrong?

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What’s the ‘latest and greatest’ in vibrators, according to you? What would make a good gift for a lady’s birthday….

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Are there any herbal supplements a woman can take to increase sex drive? Mine just disappeared in the last couple of months.

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When I was a teenager, there was always the rumor that you could catch STDs from toilet seats. Now, I wonder, is it actually possible to catch any STDs just from contact with surfaces?

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I broke up with my ex-boyfriend over a year ago. Recently, I’ve gotten really close with his best friend, who has kind of become the mediator and the person who has helped exchange our stuff, moved him out and all that. The texts have definitely taken a flirtatious turn, and I don’t know how…

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My girlfriend and I are finally moving in together! YEAH! Here’s the problem. I firmly believe that every room in the house should be - ahem - christened. She thinks this is weird and gross. I think it is the ultimate affirmation of our freedom as a couple! Who is right?

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One of my friends has a lot of sexual partners. This is not a problem. The problem is that one of those partners is her ex boyfriend who is still crazy in love with her, and another is a person in a serious long-term relationship. I have tried to have a conversation with her about her sexual…

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How can you tell the difference between a regular mole and a genital wart? My new-ish bf says he has never tested positive for HPV and the little smooth round dot on his scrotum has been there as long as he can remember. How can you tell?

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I’ve been really tired lately working almost 80 hours several weeks in a row. A few days ago, I fell asleep while having sex with my husband. He’s been pretty down in the dumps since then and keeps making jokes about how boring sex with him is. Ouch. I have of course explained that I was jus…

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Sex Doc, is an hour too long to try and reach orgasm? I have never had one and have been sexually active for five years now. Not only have none of my partners ever gotten me there, but I can't seem to figure it out on my own either. I bought a vibrator about a week ago, but the big "O" still…

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How do I build up my sexual confidence in bed? Lost my virginity a little later than all my girlfriends (24), and that one was a long-term relationship. I’ve only had 2 other partners since then, and I feel like I still don’t really know what I’m doing in bed. Help?