Improve your sex life by getting that burning question answered by one of the world's foremost experts on sex, Dr. Debby Herbenick of Indiana University's Kinsey Institute. Submit anonymously here!I always see guys press on girls buttholes in porn. Is this pleasurable? Do women like that?
Sarah: There you guys go again, addressing “women” as some unified being again. Some people would gladly tattoo a “Do Not Enter” sign on their butts just to drive home the point of how little they like their butts to be touched. Others might prefer a motel “VACANCY” sign to wear as a belt with the arrow pointing right to their poop chutes. Who’s to know? Just don’t go poking around in there without at least pausing for a quick check-in with your partner.
Dr. Debby: Some women do, yes; others do not. Same with men. You can try touching your own anal area to see if you like how it feels. And if you have a partner you can ask her or him about trying it together. It’s that easy: your bodies are playgrounds. See what feels good! Some people think it feels better if they use water-based lubricant, sort of like a massage. It’s not necessary if you’re just touching around the area, but if you are planning to insert your finger into your or a partner’s anus, it is highly highly recommended.