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Is it normal to have same sex fantasies?
Sarah: It’s normal to have all kinds of fantasies! Fantasies are not really something to which the term “normal” should apply. And I don’t think you should necessarily assume that same-sex fantasies are an indication of your sexuality. Either way—that is, whether or not you plan to bring these fantasies into being—don’t be too hard on yourself when mulling the curious wanderings of your erotic mind.
Dr. Debby: Yes! It’s common for hetero folks to have same-sex fantasies and common for gay men and lesbians to sometimes have other-sex fantasies. Fantasies are pretty fluid, interesting things. You can explore them if you want or just leave them as fantasies.