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I've never been a perverted kind of guy and I wanted to wait till I meet someone who interests me to have sex but today I got a boner so stiff I couldn't stand it. I jerked off to porn for 4 hours and I still have a boner. Nothing satisfies me. What do I do?
Sarah: You jerked off for four hours and you still have an erection!? I’m gonna go out on a limb here and guess that you’re mulling your options for some kind of Homecoming-related festivities—either high school or the first couple of years of college when you give still give a shit. If you have literally had a boner for four hours, I’ve got bad news: you need to proceed to a hospital immediately to prevent long-term damage, which is no fucking joke. Also, while we’re here, it’s important to note that sexual perversion and a high sex drive are not the same thing. As for what to do, keep jerkin’ it so right and wait for time to tug on the reins of your sex drive.
Debby: If you mean that your erection has essentially not gone down all day (i.e., it has stayed erect) then I recommend seeing a healthcare provider. If, on the other hand, you simply feel highly aroused and keep wanting to have sex, that may be normal for you. Some people feel very easily aroused. If your high level of arousal or interest in masturbation distresses you, consider meeting with a sex therapist to talk more about the issue - find one through sstarnet.org or aasect.org.