• Dr. Debby Herbenick
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My husband and I had been discussing having a threesome, which I agreed to on the condition that we would hire an escort to join us so I wouldn’t have to ask someone I know. Now, my question to you is if there’s any way to tell for sure that a sex worker doesn’t have an STD? Thank you.

  • Dr. Debby Herbenick
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Some people love using Rabbit-like toys for masturbation or partner play. Others (even people who otherwise enjoy vaginal stimulation) think they

’re pretty meh.

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  • Sarah Murrell
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Question out of curiosity: I know that female condoms exist and I get how they are supposed to work. But It just seems like a recipe for, well, having a tube of plastic stuffed up inside of you pretty quickly. Am I wrong here? Never used one and just curious.

  • Sarah Murrell
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Is there any info on which condoms feel the best? I hear good things about Ecstasy condoms, and I’d like to keep some around that feel good so the conversation about using them with new partners is easier.

  • Sarah Murrell
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I have a male friend who is usually really progressive, feminist, and a genuinely good guy who has never made me feel weird or unsafe around him. Recently, I shared that my female partner (I am also a woman) had never had sex with a man but had always had a lingering curiosity about how diff…

  • Sarah Murrell
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I want to ask a guy out that used to date a somewhat close friend of mine. I didn’t know her back when they were dating (2+ years ago), and all signs say it wasn’t a devastating breakup at all, but still… Am I doing anything wrong?

  • Sarah Murrell
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I read that the anus is the most susceptible to STDs, especially HIV. Is that true, and if so, why is that?

  • Sarah Murrell
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I read in a previous ATSD that you did a study about bacteria counts on sex toys. What about the extremely flexible jelly products, the ones that are extra stretchy/malleable? Are those more likely to hold onto bacteria?

  • Sarah Murrell
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I talked to my doctor about my waning sex drive, and she told me that it is often like exercise: the less you do it, the less you want to do it. She said sometimes the best cure is just to start putting sex on your calendar and trying to get it on whether or not you want to, and that can sti…